We as humans go through so many good and bad situations in our lives. When we go through such unpleasant times we feel as if the whole universe crashing on us and allow those painful, ugly, hard feelings to rush through our entire body. Which eventually make us vulnerable, and then we break down and let tears absorb those feelings and escape from our body which make us feel better after some time have passed. Now reflect back and think, do you really think what I said above would fix a situation? yes, you may feel a bit better but does not mean that you have learnt anything new from that problem except for the fact that you tell yourself “it’s time to move on”. Moving on doesn’t necessarily mean that you are strong enough to let go of it, instead that would probably be the best place for you to build yourself. Always having a positive mind-set and positive attitude that is used towards your day today actions will change your life a lot faster than you may think, also more people look up to you to learn new things that they could add to their lives just to experience what happiness is like.
We live in a society where there’s a lot of negative minds and negative actions flow into us and we should learn not to get caught up with it. When you have to face problems face them as opportunities, I know it probably does sounds a bit foolish however I do know for a fact that certain issues do result as a good outcome. Before you step into anything in your life, study about yourself, find out your strengths and weaknesses and then take control of yourself and your life, speak out loud for what is right and what is wrong, don’t just sit there and let such negative words that come out of people surround you to get into you.
Sometimes when we are quite around certain people they think they are able to control you and push you to every corner that they can find and make you feel like this life you are spending is just full of pain but nothing else. Right that moment think about all the positive possibilities that you could do to yourself and shape up your character which would influence your life. Believe it or not this ‘mind’ we have is in a pure state within each one of us. However we bring all these feelings and contaminate our mind. Just like if we have water in its pure form and if we add dye such as green then the water will turn green. That’s exactly how our mind works as well. If you keep your mind clear from horrible things without letting them sync into you, you are more likely to find peace also become more successful in life. If you become the right person no one can touch you, no one can knock you down, no one can point the finger at you and you will be independent which means you are capable of anything and so strong that you could even walk miles without looking back or stopping.